He's many miles and years away|
and to me has nothing to say.
But long as I live, he's my firstborn
and I will love him anyway.
There's not much I can say about my oldest son. We've been estranged since his mother fled to another state when he was about six years old. Thus preventing us from seeing one another. He bought into all the lies his mother told him and his brother, Rob. Rob didn't buy them, and he and I do have a relationship.
I went to see Tom in 2001 after Rob gave me his address. Things were cordial, and we agreed to write and seek a relationship. I wrote him letters and sent e-mails. But I never got a response.
It's his problem now.